It doesn’t matter how old the man is. If he’s an inexperienced teen, a know it all in his 20s, or a 30 year old man that is still inexperienced, they all have something in common. They all want to conquer a girl. In the quest to chase the girl, the man will make a fool of himself, they will choose the chick over their life long friends and family, even if she doesn’t even like him. They will also throw all that tough talk out the window. Around friends, and those ones with gangster friends, its all tough talk. The girl will have the same motherfuckers singing Drake’s passionfruit for them on the phone, while their feet are in the air. Men ain’t tough. They will cry like babies when the girl leaves them. If you dont see them weep, just know that when they’re drinking heavy, and clubbing, that is their way of crying. Actually, after a night like that, they usually end up crying once they get home.
Men, you’re doing it all wrong. You’re looking at it all wrong. You can’t let a girl devastate you or drain your efforts like that. She wants to eat at olive garden, but its your birthday and she forgot about you. She wants you to take her to Hollywood, yet she doesn’t acknowledge you in front of her rat friends. Do you see the imbalance? Thats right man. What im trying to tell you is that you got to go after the one that will treat you right. The one that won’t care if its Olive Garden or Union tacos. The one that will catch a fade with her own friends when they call you ugly. That one. Stop chasing ungrateful people and treat yourself like you deserve to be treated.
Many times the man will feel and act like he’s in control. Thats hardly ever true. The woman is usually in control behind a strong man. As long as you can find a balance and happiness in that, the relation will prosper. You have to be realistic. Kylie Jenner, Fashion Nova girls, Cardi B attitude, girls with Only Fans links in their bios are not accurate representations of a real woman. A real woman will be a great partner. Someone supportive and loving. Ideally they will stick around through the process until the final product is achieved. That is very important.
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